Use things and LOVE people(and not vise versa)!!
Almost after 15 days of deciding to write a blog,i was haunting for a topic to write on. God sent me a topic in (an unexpected place) traffic signal of south-end circle here in Bengaluru. A slight friction of my vehicle with the auto-rickshaw,ignited me to come up with this topic.
Ayeee... was voice that came out of the larynx of auto driver. My apology made him calm down but made me go deep into my thoughts that why does this happen? Why do ppl get aggressive or over expressive with the materialistic things that they have? The root cause is bcoz majority of us love things more than we love the people around.
It so happens that after spending some time with some things, we start finding a life in that. And we start loving that or if the things are new, we start having affinity towards that. When some damage happens to that, we are more worried than what we are supposed to be. Few of us, next moment we get a anger on a person who is responsible for that damage. In anger, we start damaging his/her spirit with our words. Few of us even end up in frustration, depression and all sorts of negative feelings surrounds.
Understand one thing that the purpose of life is GROWTH. We purchase things to make our lives become more convenient, but that itself should not become our life. People are your assets now and forever. If you lose a thing, U'll get exactly the same one but if you lose a person,you'll not get the same kind of person again. I have started LOVING people and using things.A true LEADER always put people first before things.
If you turn the pages of History, world remembers and worships those Legendary LEADERS who LOVED people and used things. YOU NEVER KNOW, YOUR name shall also go in the pages of history for who,LOVED the people and used things.
Ayeee... was voice that came out of the larynx of auto driver. My apology made him calm down but made me go deep into my thoughts that why does this happen? Why do ppl get aggressive or over expressive with the materialistic things that they have? The root cause is bcoz majority of us love things more than we love the people around.
It so happens that after spending some time with some things, we start finding a life in that. And we start loving that or if the things are new, we start having affinity towards that. When some damage happens to that, we are more worried than what we are supposed to be. Few of us, next moment we get a anger on a person who is responsible for that damage. In anger, we start damaging his/her spirit with our words. Few of us even end up in frustration, depression and all sorts of negative feelings surrounds.
Understand one thing that the purpose of life is GROWTH. We purchase things to make our lives become more convenient, but that itself should not become our life. People are your assets now and forever. If you lose a thing, U'll get exactly the same one but if you lose a person,you'll not get the same kind of person again. I have started LOVING people and using things.A true LEADER always put people first before things.
If you turn the pages of History, world remembers and worships those Legendary LEADERS who LOVED people and used things. YOU NEVER KNOW, YOUR name shall also go in the pages of history for who,LOVED the people and used things.
How true! simple words but words that add valu to our lives. All that matters is I and U...the rest are mere details! For everybody who values people more than anything else,life is a bliss! Thank you Bharath Ji :-) - TEjA
ReplyDeleteKudos Bharathji.
ReplyDeleteArticle dedicated to myself.
Awesome start.
Keep writing.
Fantastic article Sir... So true!!! to what happens so normally and people dont even realise. A very strong re-inforcement... THANKs U SO MUCH...
ReplyDeleteYes..!! Bharathji it is soooo true..!! very simple, but the inner meaning is something great..!! Thanks for re-inforcement..!!
ReplyDeleteOne of the most important lessons of life, which most of us never realise... Fantastic one Bharathji.. I have no doubts that you stand as an example for the title. All the best sir.. Keep blogging.. Keep booming...
ReplyDeleteThe True Ingredient for life to become a "Meaningful Life"!!!!
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